Does your Dick Define You?

Lately i have been wanting to ask the men i encounter if their worth is dependent on their dick. I know that sounds harsh but nowadays it seems like "men' only can offer the physical. Don't get me wrong casual sex can be a good thing but when they are trying to pursue a relationship with someone and the only way they can express themselves is by putting it down in the bedroom then there is a problem. So ive been "talking" to this dude for a short time now but based on his questions and answers,it was clear that he didn't just want a fling, but then he starts asking questions like what's your favorite position? Tell me how that counts as a good question to ask anyone, especially if you are trying to get to know them. I'm young yes, so i do want someone who is fun but there is a thin line between spontaneity and humor and disrespect and stupidity. I don't know, it just seems like dudes are either lacking some internal qualities so they have to make up for it with sex OR they are too afraid of something deeper so they stick with what they know.

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