Does your Dick Define You?

Lately i have been wanting to ask the men i encounter if their worth is dependent on their dick. I know that sounds harsh but nowadays it seems like "men' only can offer the physical. Don't get me wrong casual sex can be a good thing but when they are trying to pursue a relationship with someone and the only way they can express themselves is by putting it down in the bedroom then there is a problem. So ive been "talking" to this dude for a short time now but based on his questions and answers,it was clear that he didn't just want a fling, but then he starts asking questions like what's your favorite position? Tell me how that counts as a good question to ask anyone, especially if you are trying to get to know them. I'm young yes, so i do want someone who is fun but there is a thin line between spontaneity and humor and disrespect and stupidity. I don't know, it just seems like dudes are either lacking some internal qualities so they have to make up for it with sex OR they are too afraid of something deeper so they stick with what they know.

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Wack!

Wack! Is the only way to describe these "men" i have encountered. I know that i can be a tough cookie but imma need these dudes to grow sum balls. I know this sounds bad but if one more dude tries to holler at me and cant hold a conversation that talks about something else besides how good I look then im gonna scream! If i dont come across a guy that can just say that he wants to fuck my brains out instead of playin this im interested in you game then im gonna scream!(Shoot im horny too,we can have sum casual fun but if ur too scared 2 be forward then ur gonna miss out) If i meet another guy who has too much pride to just say that he wants to spend time w/ me instead of just staring at me all crazy and making awkard convo then im gonna scream! We got 1 life to live, if u afraid to live it then dont look my way.

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I am a Poet...Thank God

I just listened to my own spoken word performance and i cried, laughed, sat still, and shook my head...i was able to tap into emotions again by just listening....i realize now that this is what i was called to do....

http://www.twitvid.com/VUU8E

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Stop Doing the Shit

So i had an epiphany today! While i sat at my computer huffing and puffing and almost breaking down in tears because i had decided to lock my self inside today because 1. i want to avoid people who reminds me of reality and 2. to finish all these tasks that i have constantly put off for no reason at all besides wanting to fail (laziness is u just deciding to fail), I realized that this ...is some bullshit and its shit that I..CREATED.

I know that sometimes you have to go down the same road a few times to really learn and grow from it but when does that cycle stop? I know that i have learned from everything i have went through but that does not mean i can make an excuse for them.

We are human so we will go through breakups and just want to run away. We are human so we will go through times where we will think about giving up. We are human so there will be times when we break down, but because we are human we also have control over so much of it. No we can not control everything that happens but we have CONTROL OVER OUR REACTION TO IT.

I am behind in work and the simplest tasks because i chose to allow it to consume me. I am afraid to see my ex and his new friend and my mom and my friends because they remind me that I AM NOT CONTROLLING MY REACTION....But that ends now...i know its easier said than done but it starts with a change of mind...(and things can ALWAYS be worse so im done w/ this self-pity)

Forgive many things in others; nothing in yourself. If i keep forgiving myself for the same mistakes how do i expect to stop doing the shit

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Emotion Never Lie, & Emotion Never Lies Still

FACT : Although females tend to display generally higher levels of emotions than males, the expression of anger, pride, and loneliness are more frequent in males. FACT: Because anger is socially acceptable for men, traditionally gender-typed men tend to convert most other emotions into anger, often resulting in DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR & a LACK OF AWARENESS OF THE ORIGINAL EMOTION... Why you may ask? Men show more anger, and pride because they are made to believe that feelings are for women, and so they only express the two that are acceptable which are anger and pride and through these two come all of the rest of their emotions. In result of these emotions being turned into something they aren't they are not truly expressed, confusing the man and whoever he is expressing them to.....Please let our men speak, and feel...why would they feel something if its not supposed to be expressed?

FACT: Restrictive emotionality is one of the most frequently discussed issues in men's studies, & it is thought 2 underlie a number of other problems for men, including relationship difficulties, physical illness, mental health problems, & violence. Masculine gender roles often encourage men to resist the awareness of affect, avoid emotional vulnerability, & DISGUISE their feelings, especially when those feelings involve HURT, FEAR, SADNESS, or any experience that signals WEAKNESS or LACK OF CONTROL.....that says enough...we all were given emotions to help us grow and by doing so we have to express them...in my opinion, a REAL man or woman will say how they feel no matter what..if no one knows the true problem how can it be fixed? If she doesnt know you love her why would would she think you do?

EXPRESS YOURSELF BECAUSE EMOTIONS NEVER LIE & EMOTIONS NEVER LIES STILL (sooner or later they are gonna act out and its always best that they act out with you leading them) ..Enjoy, Be inspired, SPEAK

Take the Kinks out your Mind, Not your Hair

LONG TRESSES DOWN TO THE FLOOR CAN BE BEAUTIFUL, IF YOU HAVE THAT, BUT LEARN TO LOVE WHAT YOU HAVE. ♥♥



"We have the same spiral in our hair as electricity, tornadoes, whirlwinds, DNA, galaxies!"

-Nekhena Evans





I am always relieved and joyful when I influence a woman's decision to stop putting chemicals on her scalp...
-Pamela Ferrell





Hair style is the final tip-off whether or not a woman really knows herself. ~Hubert de Givenchy





Women.... Who made 'em? God must have been a... genius. Their hair. They say that the hair is everything, you know? Have you ever buried your nose in a mountain of curls, and just wanted to go to sleep forever? ~Bo Goldman





Let us dance in the sun, wearing wild flowers in our hair... ~Susan Polis Shutz





In nature, nothing is perfect and everything is perfect. Trees can be contorted, bent in weird ways, and they're still beautiful.
Alice Walker





Things are beautiful if you love them.
- Jean Anouilh

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Soo this was supposed to be a fb status but it was too long ...lol

Soo this was supposed to be a fb status but it was too long ...lol and i had a ball writing it and i really needed to get it off my chest.People will say that im hype and and that i should just move on so i will just say it for them ;-) I grow thru speaking my mind, So enjoy, laugh, be inspired..peace

Taneisha....is writing my own song, i aint gonna make it hell n ur life but 4real i am just gonna walk on by, I must admit I really thought u had potential But I could not have been more wrong I need somebody I can trust with his essentials, & no this isnt a song 2 humiliate u but tell me what girl was ever this true, & eventho im still singin i hate that i love u i know my worth & it makes me sick 2 my stomache(literally) 2 know that im bein played a fool...(shout out 2 all the dudes who want 2 walk in a man's shoes) ...good girl gone bad , i think imma enjoy this